1.) Men fall in lust 10 times a day!
Where they are married, single or in a relationship men look and admire beauty. They just cannot ignore that beautiful lady who just walked by even in the presence of their girlfriends. But this does not mean they are unfaithful. Yes, men do think about and lust for women that they look at even when they have a girlfriend or wife, but this does not mean that there is any threat to the current relationship. This is just a man habit they just cannot give up even if they wanted to.
2.) Men love their freedom and crave for it:
Ever heard your boyfriend say he is going out of town or that he will not be able to go out with you as he has an important golf game coming up? This is just an excuse. The real reason is that men just want to get away from it all and experience freedom from a relationship. But this again is a temporary phase. Once they have experience the fill of it, they will come running back to you. The best you can do is give your man some freedom. Allow him to get away from it all for sometime, and then see how the love flourishes between the both of you.
3.) Men have fear of commitment:
We love to get married to the person we love but the fact of the matter is that on the back of our minds there is always a fear of commitment. Men face fear of commitment in their younger years when their minds are obsessed with the thought of being in the company of as many women as they possibly can before they settle down. This fear plays in their minds coming on and off at many occasions. This is something which most men face, especially those who have not had relationship with many women in their teenage years.
4.) Men want to feel important and money helps them get the feel:
This is one reason any man would simply hate the feeling that his wife is earning more than him. There is no offence intended in this behavior as this is just something which the society has imposed on us. The society expects the man to be the supporter of the family and this is directly achieved by money. The male ego gets the biggest blow when they feel they are not able to earn enough to keep their female partners happy.
5.) Men want their girlfriends to be girlfriends and not a nanny:
Mother us and we will love the feeling but start behaving like one and we would want to get away from you. Men like some moments of peace when they love to lay their heads in your lap with you caressing away their hair. But men hate it when their girls start imposing rules or start arguing about what needs to be done. Yes this sounds unfair but this is what the fact is
6.) Men are afraid of woman drivers:
Most men hate to admit it but we are all afraid of woman drivers. The fear in the back of our minds is that you might loose control any moment and bump into something while driving or parking. This is one reason any man would think twice before giving a woman the keys to his car.
7.) Men nod but they are not listening:
There are many instances when men listen to women just because they do not want to anger them or disappoint them. They nod their heads and pretend to understand and agree to everything you say when in reality nothing is actually going into their heads
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Sep 8, 2008
66 Things that Can Turn Off Your Man
1.) Speaking ill of his parents
2.) Refusing to kiss him just because you don't want your lipstick smeared
3.) Refusing sex (no offense intended)
4.) Complaining about his friends
5.) Pretending to like things just because he does
5.) Worrying too much about your appearance. Don't keep asking your man how you look and if you need more make-up
6.) Talking about your past relationships. Guys have no interest in your ex-boyfriends and how they ditched you or broke your heart
7.) Talking about your relatives. Men could care less about how good a software programmer your cousin is or how he helped you fix your computer
8.) Being Overly Stubborn. Constant argument is a major turn-off
9.) Not caring about his money. A man who earns money knows how hard it is. So not caring for his money is like not recognizing the amount of hard work he has put into earning it
10.) Too much messaging or talking over mobile phone with others in presence of boyfriend
11.) Too many questions on why a guy does what he does
12.) Offering too much personal advice. Guys get turned off instantly by when you become their nanny
13.) Obessing Over Cleanliness. Being a cleanliness freak is ok unless you go to a guys room and start complaining about the mess
14.) Always expecting the guy to call: Guys don't mind calling their girls but they do feel that the girl should return the favor too at times. Call a guy and don't just send a missed call
15.) Feministic Attitude. Men simply hate women with a feministic attitude
16.) Obsessing over timeliness. Guys do get late at times but constant nagging about being late is a major turn-off
17.) Refusing to wash his undergarments (no offense intended)
18.) Asking your man to work around the house (no offense intended)
19.) Drinking too much and losing control.
20.) Trying to make a man jealous. Women who try to make them feel jealous are a major turn off to any man
21.) Constant nagging about getting married and having children. Men want to enjoy a relationship to the fullest before getting settled. So nagging about marriage and children is a turn off
22.) Too much talk about having children, their names etc.
23.) Refusing to drink out of the same glass.
24.) Being unresponsive in bed
25.) Giving instructions on how to make love. Most men cannot stand women who instruct a man on how to make love to them
26.) Talking about how your parents will not approve this relationship
27.) Playing Victim. Men get turned off by women who talk negative about how she is being victimized by everyone around her
28.) Being Needy, Insecure and Clingy
29.) Staring and talking too much with other guys when having their boyfriend along
30.) Constant Smoking. Men get turned off by women who are chain smokers or have a smoking addiction
31.) Acting Dumb. Dumb women are certainly a turn off to any man
32.) Career oriented. Men are afraid to commit to women who are career oriented
33.) Not making eye contact during a conversation
34.) Afraid of parents. Telling your boyfriend how strict your parents are
35.) Afraid of brother
36.) Keeps talking about her brother. Your boyfriend is not the least interested in listening to how your brother takes care of you or how successful he is
37.) Hairy armpits, hands and legs. Most men get turned off by hair arms and legs
38.) Flirting with other men
39.) Using bad language
40.) Having bad manners. Farting or burping out loud is a major turn off
41.) Making him hold your hand bag
42.) Dragging a man to go shopping
43.) Suggesting eyebrow waxing. Suggest a man to wax his eyebrows or do a manicure and he might not speak to you ever again.
44.) Food Obsession. Men get turned off by women who are obsessed with food
45.) Wearing ugly underwear
46.) Not knowing how to cook. Women who cannot cook are a major turn off to most men
47.) Constant talking about health problems to gain sympathy
48.) Not taking care of yourself. Women who don't shave often, don't fix hair, wear ugly or old panties, have bad breath, chipped fingernail polish are a major turn off
49.) Women who talk too much in bed
50.) Women who fake it in bed
51.) Women who never initiate sex
52.) Blaming a man of being obsessed with sex. Most men are obsessed with sex and they hate frigid women who think sex is bad or should be restricted to a certain number of times
53.) Crying at every other instant
54.) Speaking with an accent. Men like women who speak with a natural accent and not a learnt or fake one
55.) Wearing too much make-up
56.) Wearing too much jewellery
57.) Show off/Attention Seeker. Wear skimpy clothes and men will love to ogle at you but not your boyfriend. For him this is a major turnoff
58.) Nagging when a man is at work
59.) Too Inquisitive
60.) Tomboyish Attitude
61.) Discussing girly stuff. There is demarcation between the stuff you can discuss with your girlfriends and your boyfriend.
62.) Having a materialistic attitude. Men get turned off by girls having a materialistic attitude
63.) No self respect
64.) Discussing the relationship with other friends. Discussing your relationship with your girlfriends is fine as long as your don't reveal your boyfriend's secrets.
65.) Too much gossip. Girls who are too much into gossip are a turn off to most men
66.) No sense of humor
2.) Refusing to kiss him just because you don't want your lipstick smeared
3.) Refusing sex (no offense intended)
4.) Complaining about his friends
5.) Pretending to like things just because he does
5.) Worrying too much about your appearance. Don't keep asking your man how you look and if you need more make-up
6.) Talking about your past relationships. Guys have no interest in your ex-boyfriends and how they ditched you or broke your heart
7.) Talking about your relatives. Men could care less about how good a software programmer your cousin is or how he helped you fix your computer
8.) Being Overly Stubborn. Constant argument is a major turn-off
9.) Not caring about his money. A man who earns money knows how hard it is. So not caring for his money is like not recognizing the amount of hard work he has put into earning it
10.) Too much messaging or talking over mobile phone with others in presence of boyfriend
11.) Too many questions on why a guy does what he does
12.) Offering too much personal advice. Guys get turned off instantly by when you become their nanny
13.) Obessing Over Cleanliness. Being a cleanliness freak is ok unless you go to a guys room and start complaining about the mess
14.) Always expecting the guy to call: Guys don't mind calling their girls but they do feel that the girl should return the favor too at times. Call a guy and don't just send a missed call
15.) Feministic Attitude. Men simply hate women with a feministic attitude
16.) Obsessing over timeliness. Guys do get late at times but constant nagging about being late is a major turn-off
17.) Refusing to wash his undergarments (no offense intended)
18.) Asking your man to work around the house (no offense intended)
19.) Drinking too much and losing control.
20.) Trying to make a man jealous. Women who try to make them feel jealous are a major turn off to any man
21.) Constant nagging about getting married and having children. Men want to enjoy a relationship to the fullest before getting settled. So nagging about marriage and children is a turn off
22.) Too much talk about having children, their names etc.
23.) Refusing to drink out of the same glass.
24.) Being unresponsive in bed
25.) Giving instructions on how to make love. Most men cannot stand women who instruct a man on how to make love to them
26.) Talking about how your parents will not approve this relationship
27.) Playing Victim. Men get turned off by women who talk negative about how she is being victimized by everyone around her
28.) Being Needy, Insecure and Clingy
29.) Staring and talking too much with other guys when having their boyfriend along
30.) Constant Smoking. Men get turned off by women who are chain smokers or have a smoking addiction
31.) Acting Dumb. Dumb women are certainly a turn off to any man
32.) Career oriented. Men are afraid to commit to women who are career oriented
33.) Not making eye contact during a conversation
34.) Afraid of parents. Telling your boyfriend how strict your parents are
35.) Afraid of brother
36.) Keeps talking about her brother. Your boyfriend is not the least interested in listening to how your brother takes care of you or how successful he is
37.) Hairy armpits, hands and legs. Most men get turned off by hair arms and legs
38.) Flirting with other men
39.) Using bad language
40.) Having bad manners. Farting or burping out loud is a major turn off
41.) Making him hold your hand bag
42.) Dragging a man to go shopping
43.) Suggesting eyebrow waxing. Suggest a man to wax his eyebrows or do a manicure and he might not speak to you ever again.
44.) Food Obsession. Men get turned off by women who are obsessed with food
45.) Wearing ugly underwear
46.) Not knowing how to cook. Women who cannot cook are a major turn off to most men
47.) Constant talking about health problems to gain sympathy
48.) Not taking care of yourself. Women who don't shave often, don't fix hair, wear ugly or old panties, have bad breath, chipped fingernail polish are a major turn off
49.) Women who talk too much in bed
50.) Women who fake it in bed
51.) Women who never initiate sex
52.) Blaming a man of being obsessed with sex. Most men are obsessed with sex and they hate frigid women who think sex is bad or should be restricted to a certain number of times
53.) Crying at every other instant
54.) Speaking with an accent. Men like women who speak with a natural accent and not a learnt or fake one
55.) Wearing too much make-up
56.) Wearing too much jewellery
57.) Show off/Attention Seeker. Wear skimpy clothes and men will love to ogle at you but not your boyfriend. For him this is a major turnoff
58.) Nagging when a man is at work
59.) Too Inquisitive
60.) Tomboyish Attitude
61.) Discussing girly stuff. There is demarcation between the stuff you can discuss with your girlfriends and your boyfriend.
62.) Having a materialistic attitude. Men get turned off by girls having a materialistic attitude
63.) No self respect
64.) Discussing the relationship with other friends. Discussing your relationship with your girlfriends is fine as long as your don't reveal your boyfriend's secrets.
65.) Too much gossip. Girls who are too much into gossip are a turn off to most men
66.) No sense of humor
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